EXPERIENCE has taught
us that intimacy is difficult because we expect it and want it
right away.
Most of us seek instant intimacy.
Sex, the best/worst example of instant intimacy, is the
instant gratification for intimacy-seeking souls. It is thought to be the elixir of life, that
magic potion that will mood-alter us into unimagined ports of call and
happiness and well-being.
Too bad it doesn’t work that way.
Sex, courtship, and infatuation all contain elements of
feeling intimate, but they are not intimacy, and they are not magical. They, in and of themselves, will not provide
either happiness or a sense of well-being.
Some folks don’t know this, and some do, but refuse to want to believe
that it might be true.
Too
Much, Too Soon
Too
Fast, Too Inflexible
Too
Demanding
Can
Damage The Possibilities Of Intimacy.
Experience
Has Taught Us – 175 Missing Pieces –
An Explorer’s Guide
to Developing a Handbook on Life
Available ... Amazon.ca as eBook
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